How to be confident

Confidence = Trust in your own power and judgment

1. Changing dressing style and hair style
2. Go to gym to have fitness
3. Powerful walking style
4. Good posture
5. Take up spaces
6. Compliment other and be gracious
7. Sit in the front row
8. Be vocal
9. Focus on others
10. Involve charity work
11. Do outside your normal activity
12. Distinguishing from others
13. Have an eye contact
14. use words like Man/ Dude
15. Nod up
16. Smile when you walk into a room
17. Talk to people
18. Do not compare yourself with anyone
19. Help one person per day
20. Follow your passion
21. Label yourself positively

Ref : http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8SC7-EUkFNo

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Lyrics

Desh Mere 

Desh Mere Desh Mere Meri Jaan Hai Tu
Desh Mere Desh Mere Meri Jaan Hai Tu
Desh Mere Desh Mere Meri Shaan Hai Tu
Desh Mere Desh Mere Meri Shaan Hai Tu
Mitta Ne Se Nahin Mitte
Mitta Ne Se Nahin Mitte Darrane Se Nahin Darrte 
Watan Ke Naam Pe 
Watan Ke Naam Pe Hum Sar Katane Se Nahin Darrte
Mitta Ne Se Nahin Mitte
Desh Mere Desh Mere Meri Jaan Hai Tu
Desh Mere Desh Mere Meri Jaan Hai Tu
Desh Mere Desh Mere Meri Shaan Hai Tu
Desh Mere Desh Mere Meri Shaan Hai Tu

Hazaron Khwaab Roshan Ke Sulagti Si Nigaahon Mein 
Sulagti Si Nigaahon Mein 
Kafan Hum Baandh Ke Nikle Hai Azadi Ki Rahon Mein
Kafan Hum Baandh Ke Nikle Hai Azadi Ki Rahon Mein
Nishaane Pe Jo Rehte Hai Nishaane Se Nahin Darrte 
Desh Mere Desh Mere Meri Jaan Hai Tu
Desh Mere Desh Mere Meri Jaan Hai Tu
Desh Mere Desh Mere Meri Shaan Hai Tu
Desh Mere Desh Mere Meri Shaan Hai Tu

Hamari Ek Manzil Hai Hamara Ek Naara Hai 
Dharm Se Jaat Se Zyaada Humme Yeh Mulk Pyaara Hai
Dharm Se Jaat Se Zyaada Humme Yeh Mulk Pyaara Hai
Hum Is Pe Zindagi Apni Mittane Se Nahin Darrthe
Desh Mere Desh Mere Meri Jaan Hai Tu
Desh Mere Desh Mere Meri Jaan Hai Tu
Desh Mere Desh Mere Meri Shaan Hai Tu
Desh Mere Desh Mere Meri Shaan Hai Tu

Mitta Ne Se Nahin Mitte Darrane Se Nahin Darrte 
Watan Ke Naam Pe 
Watan Ke Naam Pe Hum Sar Katane Se Nahin Darrte
Desh Mere Desh Mere Meri Jaan Hai Tu
Desh Mere Desh Mere Meri Jaan Hai Tu
Desh Mere Desh Mere Meri Shaan Hai Tu
Desh Mere Desh Mere Meri Shaan Hai Tu
Desh Mere Desh Mere Meri Jaan Hai Tu
Desh Mere Desh Mere Meri Jaan Hai Tu
Desh Mere Desh Mere Meri Shaan Hai Tu
Desh Mere Desh Mere Meri Shaan Hai Tu 

Meaning

Economic Crisis

Last two decades, India has been exporting software and last decade, decrease in Indian rupee use to have good impact much, because quantity (in dollars) of exports (software) is greater than quantity of imports (in dollars).

But, now decrease in rupee value creates issue because of

1) We import more (oil, cosmetics, food items etc..) compare to exports (Softwares and other products)
2) Our deficit is in dollar rather than in rupees to the world bank
3) Decrease in rupees creates instability and  investment unfriendliness for the foreign companies..

I am in Singapore (1 SGD = 39 Rs (Feb) and now 1 SGD = 43 Rs (May)), I should be happy but I can not be happy and I can not enjoy/ diggest the drastic decrease in Indian rupee..  India does not deserve to be in this situation !! 


Around 300 million Indians are getting benefited because of liberalization in the year 1991, credit goes to Dr. Manmohan singh. PM (Pranab Mukharjee) , please do something with the help of PM (Prime minister) !!


Am I right ?

Vande Mataram and Bharath Matha Ki Jai !!

Espncricinfo- an observation

Small observation on espncricinfo !!
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Though Cricinfo is not as great as Facebook or Wikipedia, it has cricket match archive, player information in all forms from 18th century, cover stories, articles .. must be extraordinary with respect to database management, statistics collection and presentation of the data efficiently and effectively

second thing is, Facebook or Wikipedia.. public load information from all over the places, but in cricinfo, set of people (employees) collect and load the information...

Third : They (employees) literally type the commentary for each and every ball.. and update is fast.. may be 1 ball delay !!any many things..

Overall, http://www.espncricinfo.com/ : IT professionals, Statisticians, GUI specialists as well as human-factor analysts to admire !! It will do more in future

-- Jithendrian
Cricinfo website viewer !!

Good Six months !!

Excitement, thrilling, tension, changes, emotional attacks what else.. Everything within six months is definitely an amazing and life time experience!!

Marriage or Higher Studies??

You know, there is one famous proverb “If you run after two hares, you will catch neither.” Two hares are nothing but PhD and marriage!! My family wanted me to go for marriage and I wished to apply for PhD. They started looking for a girl and I started looking for PhD admission. It is typically a situation for arranged vs love marriage :)

Both, getting an experience from good research centre and marrying a girl with good looking, well educated and good family background are two good opportunities at the same time !! I decided to go for marriage as well as for research engineer position at NTU, Singapore. I know leaving a great organization like ABB Research and going to a new place where I do not know whether I will be getting PhD admission immediately, is a risk and saying "yes" to marriage is an another risk !!

My philosophy is simple "more risk leads to more incentive if we play the game carefully* :) "

*- carefully is subjective

By the way my would-be name is "Nithya"

Betrothal

Betrothal was arranged very well and I enjoyed many moments especially when my cousins and friends were pulling my legs :) most important thing there were definitely some happy faces of family members. My anna is the one who is behind all these things from my side. As per proverb "Jyeshta bratha pithru samaha" (Elder brother is equivalent to Father) and it is absolutely true in my case.. Nithya appa introduced me to many of his relatives I was thinking how to explain if they asked what I was doing then !! Because I resigned ABB and I could not explain everything about Intellisys (NTU)... Apart from these things four major questions running in my mind

• I have to be more responsible !!, can I be ?
• My brother under went surgery, when will he get recovered ?
• What am I going to do in NTU ? and
• ABB relieving ?

I do not know whether Nithya is confident on her or on me, To my surprise, Nithya was very cool and kept on telling me to smile.. I know she struggled a bit to make me smile which is supposed to be my unique selling point ! Finally my betrothal got over in a grand way, thanks to all who attended and blessed ! Received blessings from great people and received garland from many temples !

Leaving ABB, collegues and Friends !!

ABB research experience is definitely a launching pad for my research career. I learnt many things and earned many great friends. It is really hard to say bye to people with whom I had spent good amount of time by working, interacting and regularly going for coffee, movies, tea etc.. especially rama mami coffee !! Yes I was bit emotional but life has to go on !! I also miss Raghu uncle and his family ( who use to give me food all three times )..

Next is Bangalore, Bangalore is the place which exposed me to the modern world and I consider this three years is definitely a good period for me !! Will miss Chennai - Bangalore week end visits !!

NTU and Singapore

On the day of February 14, I got a good and surprise gift from my would-be and with the joy my first journey to foreign land started !! First few days I was alone and you know, it is very rare "jithu being alone" !! Yes, but I enjoyed as well as bit suffered for being alone.. I got to know about the train system, shuttle and few places in Singapore. In the initial stages, I wanted to get rid of loneliness and found the way that spending time in facebook !! To my expectation yes I was accompanied by many in facebook.. The next week after my coming to Singapore, my under graduate close friend Arun was back to Singapore and for the past two weekends we have been moving around the city. Sometimes I spend time in few exercises and activities .. !! Now I am happy that I am active, independent and gaining confidence !!

Now I have to concentrate on my RESEARCH :)

My next goal is

Now its everything depends on my marriage life.. to achieve what I desire and what I deserve, I pray and seek blessings from almighty, well wishers and good people !!

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Thanks for reading

Jithu

एकं जीवनम्, एकः अवसरः

One life one chance